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See, when a guy likes you, he likes you, if you call him 60 times per hour, your call gives him pleasure and he enjoys it. If a man doesn't like you, call him once in an hour, you are seriously disturbing him and wants you out of his way. The problem now is, most ladies are desperately running after guys who are simply not interested in them and make themselves cheaply available to him. If you want to learn how to handle a man, you learn from a man, not just a woman. That is why it is good to have opposite sex friends as singles, it will help you know how to handle your spouse in future! That question I asked guys on who they think a cheap/desperate lady is is very deliberate. Their responses are practical, though some went overboard. A wise woman will learn from those priceless information and work on her weaknesses! There is a difference between being friendly and CHASING a guy and a man knows when you are chasing him! If you treat that guy the same way you treat everyone and ...

It is commonly said that most people prepare for wedding instead of planning for their marriage. Your plan for your marriage and family should determine how your wedding should go. FINANCE "Owo se pataki o" meaning "money plays an important role in marriage" Living a fake life during courtship will get you into trouble especially brothers. Don't present yourself to your fiancee like you have it all together. Be real. Don't hire a car because you want to visit/impress your fiancee, I should add that sisters too shouldn't borrow fancy wears and accessories. Just be yourself. Both of you, not the brother alone, should Declare your ASSET & LIABILITIES in courtship. Be open about your income inside courtship. In what way can fake life get you into trouble? If your fiancee doesn't know what you earn and you don't share your pains with her about your finances; there will be trouble for your wedding and marriage. She won't help you manag...

In ancient Greece, Socrates was reputed to hold knowledge in high esteem. One day an acquaintance met the great philosopher and said, “Do you know what I just heard about your friend?” “Hold on a minute,” Socrates replied. “Before telling me anything I’d like you to pass a little test. It’s called the Triple Filter Test.” “Triple filter?” “That’s right,” Socrates continued. “Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be a good idea to take a moment and filter what you’re going to say. That’s why I call it the triple filter test. The first filter is Truth. Have you made absolutely sure that what you are about to tell me is true?” “No,” the man said, “Actually I just heard about it and ...” “All right,” said Socrates. “So you don’t really know if it’s true or not. Now let’s try the second filter, the filter of Goodness...

A lot of girls today complain guys walk away from them simply bcus they refused having sex with them. While some are even tempted given away their virginity just to keep the guy. Let me be blunt here. Looking at it critically you will see that virginity may not be the real reason why guys walk away,it may not be sex either. The story of the ten virgins in the bible made us to understand dat both the wise and the foolish were virgin; the other five wer not allowed to see the bridegroom not bcus dey were virgin or dey lost their virginity. NO! But bcus they were foolish and called foolish bcus they had no EXTRA OIL And what is that EXTRA OIL if i may ask? The EXTRA OIL here is your CHARACTER or those things you can offer in a relationship apart from SEX, VIRGINITY AND PHYSICAL BEAUTY. Most girls don't have that EXTRA OIL to sustain them in any relationship, while some brag about virginity, that's all they gat to offer. Apart from virginity and sex what else can u offer t...

Young girl you are PRETTY, but i have to warn you not to loose your VIRGINITY. Don't allow what you see in your VICINITY break your wall of SECURITY. Your VIRGINITY is your DIGNITY and make it your No.1 PRIORITY, don't listen to those that call it lack of OPPORTUNITY. Don't allow the error of PROXIMITY lead you into IMMORALITY. Your friends call you MINORITY because you refused to join their PARTY of MAJORITY. They show off their body committing different ATROCITY and you are thinking of embracing their INSANITY. But listen to me! In God you have your true IDENTITY and you are covered with divine IMMUNITY. Leave them to PARTY in their IRASCIBILITY because in REALITY the end is CALAMITY. If you have lost your VIRGINITY already don't worry God can still give you a new IDENTITY! His DIVINITY will help your HUMANITY but you have to abstain from all IMMORALITY so you can get access into His beautiful CITY prepared by the GOD_ALMIGHTY🙌 #Copied ...