THE EXTRA OIL IN A RELATIONSHIP...

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A lot of girls today complain guys walk away from them simply bcus they refused having sex with them. While some are even tempted given away their virginity just to keep the guy.
Let me be blunt here. Looking at it critically you will see that virginity may not be the real reason why guys walk away,it may not be sex either.
The story of the ten virgins in the bible made us to understand dat both the wise and the foolish were virgin; the other five wer not allowed to see the bridegroom not bcus dey were virgin or dey lost their virginity.
NO! But bcus they were foolish and called foolish bcus they had no EXTRA OIL
And what is that EXTRA OIL if i may ask?
The EXTRA OIL here is your CHARACTER or those things you can offer in a relationship apart from SEX, VIRGINITY AND PHYSICAL BEAUTY.
Most girls don't have that EXTRA OIL to sustain them in any relationship, while some brag about virginity, that's all they gat to offer.
Apart from virginity and sex what else can u offer to a man?
Can you support him physically?
Can you support him financially?
Can you support him spiritually?
How about mentally?
All you do is demanding money for bags, shoes, cloths and outing. Making him spend unnecessarily because you see relationship as a Job opportunity, sex as your office duty and virginity as a CV or qualification for the job.
Have you ever sat him down and helped him plan his future?
Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in ?
How many time has he come to you in a state of dilemma seeking your advice?
Rather than jumping from one place to another all in the name of enjoyment.
As for the virgins dat refuse to understand or even remember that virginity ends after wedding night but the EXTRA OIL continues.
Though nobody is perfect 'cus we all have our bad sides.
But try to be a woman that a man a will always regret losing for the rest of his life.
Be that woman that your man can't afford loosing to another man.
Build your man to your taste and stop looking for already made husband because you can get an already made t- shirt but it wont size you like the one tailored with your measurement.
There's nothing like building up your man yourself because you will forever earn his respect, trust and love.
Blessed Day
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Comments

  1. JONAH2 November 2017 at 09:23

    I wish many of our spinsters will have access to this short but powerfully unique article filled with these great messages.

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    1. Famuyiwa Oluwashola Onyinyechi2 November 2017 at 09:35

      I wish so too Sir, that is why I'll appreciate it if you could help in sharing Sir🙏

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  2. Tinu2 November 2017 at 16:34

    Well done dear, God bless you.

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  3. Phenomenal Clezzcalyx2 November 2017 at 21:17

    Hmm, inspiring. God will give our single ladies out there the knowledge about an EXTRA OIL

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