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Oluwashola is a Public Speaker with a simple, practical and jovial approach to communicating and is passionate about life and impacting all those she comes in contact with positively. She is Purpose-Driven, versatile in nature, and has an impeccable communication, analytical and interpersonal skills. Shola is a Counsellor, Song writer, and a woman of the Word.

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- May 23, 2020

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WHEN LOVE HURTS...

- September 13, 2017

True love is not all about this "gooeey-gooeey" feelings, head in cloud 9, butterfly in stomach and staring into your beloved's eyes 24/7. Heavens knows I still have that "gooeey" feelings for my darling and honestly, his tall, slim frame never cease making my heart pant for him. I don't get bored being in his company. 11 years of knowing this cutie doesn't look like it, it's like...oh, it's like we just started! But love is also tough! There is something called tough love! That is what I want to talk about. The love that will last a life time will go through seasons and one of the seasons which most singles don't want to talk about, many married people avoid and most divorcees wished they had the wisdom to manage is the season of tough love! This is the season your partner stamps their feet and say, "NO honey, I'm not going to take this!" It's the season you go through your adjustment period; adapting to your spouse, cha...

STOP DROOLING...

- October 31, 2017

Hello ladies, I want to beg you, please, no matter how handsome a man looks and he strikes you blind with his handsomeness, please, don't fall to the ground and faint! Don't show it, don't hold your heart and scream "whaaaaoooooh!" like a woman suffering from mental illness. Men are quick to notice that and mark you immediately as cheap! Play boys love it though, he cashes on it, make himself semi scarce, you pursue him, he shows availability, land you in bed and disappears! Shouldn't you appreciate good looks? Please, do. Just look once and take your eyes away. Be friendly to everyone not just this guy in particular and stop roaming around him hoping he notices you. That's called desperation! Learn to look from the corner of your eyes. I can be looking straight yet describe you from head to toe! That's okay. When I meet men with stunning looks, I look once and take my eyes off. If he gets me weak, I disappear! If work or business brings us t...

Sexual Urges (yay or nay) 🤔

- December 18, 2017

You know there's a 'sincere' pleasure that emanates from sex, especially when the act is performed with somebody that you love, and not someone you are paid to have it with. Sex is something that not only transcends in the physical realm, but also in the spiritual realm. It is an established fact that a lot of us do have sexual urges (S.U), and they are just fine the way they are, in fact it is a sign that you are normal! I had a counselling session with a young man, and he open ed up and confided in me about his really ‘intense’ sexual urges, which later led him into (pornography, masturbation, etc.) in a bid to satisfy those urges, which is wrong by the way .... And as a result of that, he th ought he was abnormal, because the whole thing i.e 'the feelings' were so intense for him. I had to assure him that the fact that he experienced all this S.U, only affirmed the fact that he was indeed normal, because this are things that God has put in us, so that at t...