HOW TO KNOW YOUR PARTNER IS A LIAR!

Liars are satan's representatives on earth! They are specialists at causing confusion and making you look stupid! They have the special capacity to drive you insane and eventually get you locked in a psychiatric hospital! Liars are people with dead conscience! They lie so much even the devil bow at the magnitude of their lies!

Liars are fake! They wear fake smile, fake joy, give fake love, fake money and even fake sex! Each time you are with them you sense they are not really with you. They tell you they love you but their eyes and action says something else. He says he respects your opinion, praises you silly and do the exact opposite of what you advise him. She says you are the best guy she has ever met yet keeps flirting with better looking or richer guys.

They don't give you straight answers when you ask them questions e.g . "Where  where you at 8am in the morning?" "Guess what?" He replied enthusiastically! "I just bought you a new pair of shoes!" Of course you are excited at the sight of the shoe, the question and tension in the ear is temporarily forgotten. He had successfully diverted your attention from the question you asked.

Liars reply your question with a question e.g "who is Suzie?" He feigned innocence and respond "Suzie? Who is Suzie?" He had tactically use the response to quickly think of an answer to give. Liars don't answer questions straight.

Liars deny a lot thereby driving you mad. Everyone knows the guy is wearing a black shirt but he insists it's white!

Liars cheat a lot. You see different girls in his apartment but he claims they are sisters in the Lord, mentees, counsellees, distant cousins or nephews, colleagues at works etc yet they flirt with him, sit on his laps or send him sexy messages.

Liars are smooth talkers. He always tell you he loves you, wanna die for you, you are the only one yet hides you in public, would not introduce you to his parents and beats you at every slight provocation.

Liars inflate the price of goods. This is common among ladies. Every one knows 6kg gas cylinder gets filled at 2k, it is from her mouth you hear economic recession has doubled! They now fill the tank at 4k!

Liars hide their phones a lot. The truth about his life is on his phone but would not allow you to touch it.

Liars swear a lot. If you constantly hear, "To God who bear me witness!" "I swear!" "God!" while touching his tongue and raising the finger to heaven, his confession is questionable. If you are really speaking the truth, you don't need to swear, what for?

Liars avoid eyes contact a lot. Each time he tells you lies, he avoids eye contact. Our eyes speak volumes, he knows you can get the truth from his eyes.

Liars blink a lot. They blink in order to get confidence for the lies they are about to tell. If he constantly blinks while answering your question, he is either telling lies or has sand in his eyes!

Liars deny a lot. You catch him red handed yet he denies he ever did it.

Ugh! Heard enough? These points apply to both sex but candidly, the percentage of men who lie in relationships is far higher than women. Some women are masters at telling lies but most men are grand masters!

Take your time, study the relationship you are into before saying "I DO". Once you are joined in matrimony to a liar, your hypertension is certain unless the good God of heaven have mercy on you and save your spouse.

Never marry an incorrigible, unrepentant, blatant, chronic, super talented liar! He will nail your happiness to the coffin. May your eyes be opened before it is too late. God bless!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.