I'm In Love with my Pastor

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We were two in my room at school. We attended same fellowship. We were workers together at the fellowship.
Time to time, the pastor comes around to pick my room mate for visitation and evangelism. It was getting too frequent , and I will always imagine, where is the pastor's wife? Where are the brothers at the church? Where  are the other sisters at the church. Why must it be this same room mate of mine everyday and every time. She was neither a member of evangelism nor visitation unit. She was a choir member.
A little time after that, the sister told me she was receiving the pastor as her husband in her dreams. Ah! What? A married pastor with kids!
I told her straight a way, the dreams came from the pit of hell. Revelations that are against the scriptures are not from God. You can't receive an already married man as your husband.
Some times after that, God revealed to me what was happening between the pastor and my room mate. I started having series of revelations about them. I confronted the sister first. I shared the revelations with her. She was so afraid and confessed how the pastor has been tempted severally to touch her breast and kissed her. Although she didn't tell me if he has ever slept with her, because I asked that.
Don't be deceived! A married brother cannot be your husband again. God is not an author of confusion says the word. Don't let the man of God fall or fail. Reduce an unnecessary interaction with them. A man of God that does not want to fail, should not be playing with fire. An opposite sex is fire. Don't be unnecessarily close to an opposite sex in the name of spiritual exercise. Involve others if need be. Don't always choose a particular sister or brother for tasks that can also be done by others. When you are tending to lust, be sincere. Everyone knows when lust comes. Discontinue every relationship that has arouse lust on you. If not, you will fall.
Eventually, the sister left the fellowship to discontinue the evil relationship. She later revealed a lot that has happened between them. Don't let anyone despise your youth in the name of a pastor. Don't be misled! The pastor promised her marriage. This is against the scripture. Most youth love their pastor, but be careful, don't do anything that will lead them to sin. They are human like you. God just empowered them for the spiritual assignment. They still have feelings just like you. Don't arouse a negative feelings through your attitude to them. Let us be very careful and sensitive of the flocks too, as ministers. Don't ever encourage lust. Kill it immediately when you sense it. Terminate lust at pregnancy stage. It can kill!
Then when lust hath conceived, it bringeth forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bringeth forth death.James:1:15
Evangelist Kemi Longe.
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