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You know there's a 'sincere' pleasure that emanates from sex, especially when the act is performed with somebody that you love, and not someone you are paid to have it with. Sex is something that not only transcends in the physical realm, but also in the spiritual realm. It is an established fact that a lot of us do have sexual urges (S.U), and they are just fine the way they are, in fact it is a sign that you are normal! I had a counselling session with a young man, and he open ed up and confided in me about his really ‘intense’ sexual urges,  which later led him into (pornography, masturbation, etc.)  in a bid to satisfy those urges, which is wrong by  the way .... And as a result of that, he th ought he was abnormal, because the whole thing i.e 'the feelings' were so intense for him. I had to assure him that the fact that he experienced all this S.U, only affirmed the fact that he was indeed normal, because this are things that God has put in us, so that at t...

Hello everyone.🙂 You know that quote below really got me thinking, because it spoke volumes to me.... You know sometimes we Christians are really guilty of this, we spend more time on our Businesses, our Families, and most especially for some, on our kids, and give the Remnant to God!!! Forgetting the fact that this same God is the one who has given us this time, this business, this family, etc. Some of us don't even have time for devotion anymore, or for some that can whisk away a few minutes, we spend stunted time in HIS presence so that when we are asked how many of us do have quiet time, we can also raise hands I read a quote, and it still touches me till tomorrow and it says 'G O D is for God and D O G is for Dog, so give the Best to God, and the Rest to the Dog! Don't you ever forget that there is NOTHING we have today that has not been given to us by God, yes I used WE, cause I'm also talking to myself here, I am not Exempted! Don't you also fo...

I've heard stuffs like, "don't check your husband's phone if you don't want to develop hypertension."  What is in that phone that you cannot check? Excuse me brother, what secret conversations are you having that your wife must not see or hear about? Who are you having secret chats with as a wife? Why are you deleting your chats, what is in the chat you are deleting? Emotional affair is every where! The moment you start having secret admiration for someone who is not your spouse, you are lusting and you need to deal with it. You can't carry fire in your bossom and not be burnt! The only solution to dealing with the affair is to block that person from your life. To keep talking to them with the false hope you will deal with the lust is to live in a fool's paradise. You will one day have sex with that person, GUARATEED! Flee youthful lust is what the Bible says, it!s not just for singles, it's for the married as well. There is one sure fire pr...