I CAN'T MARRY A WOMAN OLDER THAN ME

There is no big deal marrying a man younger than you or a woman who is older. When I wrote a short article on that very recently, some singles' comments just make me laugh. Some claim they want a man who is more MATURE. That statement is immature because you do not know what maturity is.

Maturity has nothing to do with age! I've met men in their 50s who utter nothing but absolute foolishness! They lack wisdom, grace, tact, discipline, a sense of purpose, direction and are disasters going every where to happen!
They are irresponsible, indisciplined and are everything a woman wants to disrespect.

I have met men in their twenties who speak with wisdom, are disciplined, know when to talk and when not to, have a sense of purpose, know exactly where they are going and are very responsible.

I have seen husbands far older than their wives and the women hate showing them respect and I've seen those with older wives who treat their husbands like the king of the universe. What makes the difference? Respect! What triggers the respect? The man's maturity.

Yes, there are men who are older than their wives and their wives still show them respect, all still boils down to the man's maturity.

What is maturity? Acceptance of responsibility. If you are not responsible, no matter how much you age and how many years you are far far older than your wife, she will not respect you! These are men who will not do what they are suppose to do in the home and when the woman complains, you will hear, "I'm I your mate?" Go and sit down Mr man!

Go for maturity irrespective of the age! What makes you submit to a man is his leadership ability, wisdom, sense of direction, purpose and genuine love for you.

Marry a man who is wiser and more mature than you are regardless of the age. Marry a man who has the capacity to lead, guide and husband you! Marry a man who is godly and responsible, above all, marry God's will.

As a man, marry a lady who respects, honours, adores and cherishes you. Marry a woman who honours you from the depth of her heart and treats you like a king. Marry a woman who listens to you, takes to correction and is willing to submit in marriage. Marry a woman who is humble and sees you as her leader, father and role model, marry God's will for your life.

Age is only in numbers. It s not the absolute gurantee that someone is mature and responsible. All you need is someone who is mature and godly. Go for them and go for God's will. God bless you. Cheers!
© Seun Oladele, 2017.