7 COMMON FEARS SINGLES HAVE ABOUT RELATIONSHIP/MARRIAGE

This was a teaching & prayer live Ministration I did in one of our TRUTH FOR SINGLES SUMMIT & also on a Watsapp group (African relationship pendulum​).  I know it will bless someone here.  Read and blessed. 7 FEARS : 

1. The fear of been rejected: There are many guys that have inner fear of being rejected by ladies. Something keeps telling them, no lady will accept your proposal, don't bother to propose. And this fear has kept many guys mute!
Their mouth are crippled, they can't express their intentions to any lady they have feeling and leading of God for. Just because they have fear they will be rejected.
Some ladies too have the fear of being rejected. Something tells you, nobody likes you, no body loves you, something keeps telling you, nobody will come and propose marriage to you. You have the fear that, they will reject your face, your body stature, your height, etc
1) The fear Late marriage:
Many singles have the fear of getting married late, Especially once you turn 25 as a lady and is like no guy is even noticing your existence, fear will crip in
And something starts telling you that, you might not get marry until when you are in your late 30s
The devil begins to point some ladies and guys to you who are above 30 and 40 and are yet to be married
Reject that fear!
I say to you , no matter how many people are getting married late in your family and around you, hear the word of the Lord, your case shall be different in Jesus name!
The fear of getting married to the wrong person
That's another fear in the corner of the hearts of many singles today. This is because, we have so many fake guys and ladies around us today, so many singles are really having the fear of making a wrong choice!
Dont be afraid! I got married in this same generation full of deceitful ladies, but I tell you, I got the best!
Fear not! Prepare yourself. Work on yourself. Be a right guy, be a right lady and you will attract the right person..
But if you are a cheat, a crook , a dubious guy/lady, a fornicator, a careless person, let it be known to you that you will only marry your type.
You can't be smarter than God.
He knows how to corner you.
So, if you want the right person, be the right person.. stick cannot magnetize iron
It is only iron that can attract and magnetize iron.

4) Fear of having a broken relationship: They' ve told some of you, that, heart break is inevitable and that, you must be in atleast 3 to four relationships before you will eventually marry
That's a lie!
Help me tell somebody beside you that ' that's a lie'! Say it.
And because many of you believe this lie, you are ready to go through broken relationship
But you are afraid of its effect on your emotion
Though it might not be the same for everyone, but I tell u my personal testimony
I never dated 2 ladies I proposed to one lady. We did courtship & now she is the Queen in my palace.
No broken heart, no broken relationship
I know it can work for somebody like that too
Don't be afraid. ! Don't let any relationship 'expert ' tell you ,that you must go through serial relationship before you get married.
You can blessed by God that, is only one person you get into relationship with that you will marry.

5. Fear of being barren when married.
There are many single ladies who have the fear that, they may not be able to conceive when they get marry
Some guys too are afraid that, they may not be able to impregnate their wives when they marry Yes, probably because of their rough sexual lifestyle
Probably because of STDs Probably because of delay in child bearing they see around them
Probably because of past abortion Or damaged reproductive organs
Hear me sirs and mas None of these reason are strong enough to keep u in fear of barreness,
If you are here tonight, and you know you are living a reckless sex life I prostrate for you in the name of Jesus, please, stop that fornication
It will put your life in frustration!
If you have committed abortion in the past, cry to God for forgiveness
Plead the blood of Jesus to silence the voice of those babies you murdered that are crying for vengeance
And promise God you will never do it again
Every lady here, place your hand on your tummy , I want to declare a fatherly prayer for you right now
You shall not be barren in Jesus name!
At the right time when you get marry, pregnancy will be easy for you in Jesus name!
This your womb will carry fine boy and not fibroid in Jesus name.
Cancer will not locate your breasts!
Your husband will not suffer low sperm count
Your sins that can make you barren are forgiven in Jesus name! Mercy will speak for you!
All guys in the house, you shall not be barren in Jesus name!
You will not suffer low sperm count
To impregnate your wife in marriage will not be difficult for you in Jesus name!
All my daughters here, I prophecy over you, powers of darkness will not block your womb in Jesus name! Every one saying amenn, you will have the number of children you desire when you get marry in Jesus name! The same grace that worked for my Queen that made her conceive without stress, ladies, receive that grace in Jesus name!
She carried pregnancy as if she is carried a sachet of pure water in her hand. So strong in pregnancy, so beautiful, so radiating, she carried that special grace. I prophecy same grace upon all of you right now in Jesus name!
You will not loose your beauty in pregnancy!
You better say ' 'Amen'. These prayers are going right away into your 'future marriage bank account ' so that you will just withdraw them when you need them in marriage without stress

6. The fear of child birth:
I was lodged in an hotel few weeks back when I went for a ministration,
While I was there, I watched a movie on Africa magic or so. A lady who did an arrange wedding with a guy and agreed they were not going to have sex
They just did the wedding, they were never married
And the guy asked her why she is afraid of getting married
And she said, she is afraid of child birth.
Yes, it is true that many women died as a result of birth pain
The devil wait for so many women in the labour room
And there he kills women anyhow. So, he kills their babies at birth. But I have a good news for someone reading me tonight
You will not die in labour room in Jesus name!
Some of you ladies even wonder atimes at your vagina, and you wonder how a child will pass through that small place
That's one of the wonders of God!
As small as that place is, at birth, God performs a miracle and causes the birth canal (vagina) to balloon itself to allow the baby to come out
That's the miracle of God! Only a fool will say there is no God!
None of you reading me tonight, will go through CS to deliver any of your children in marriage in Jesus name!
I know of a woman who d doctor said , they will do CS for her because  her birth canal was blocked by what they cannot explain.
She was having contractions but she was not dileting
I speak to your future as a servant of the Lord, on the day of your delivery, no power will block your vagina in Jesus name! Angels of God will take your delivery You will not die in labour room
You will not give birth to still birth
Every one that will see you with pregnancy shall also see you carrying your living child in Jesus name! Fear not! Fear not! Fear not! Don't be afraid of child birth
I have 3 lovely children
And at the day of their deliveries , doctors said the same things to me
' among all the deliveries of babies we took today, your wife's own is the easiest and the fastest ' Yes, my Queen goes to delivery room and comes out easily as if she just went to pee
Ladies are you here? I feel a very strong unction upon me to pray for someone here tonight
That same testimony shall be said about you in Jesus name. Receive that same anointing of easy delivery in Jesus name
You will not die at the point of giving birth
You will not suffer miscarriage in Jesus name!

By Ebenezer Diyaolu