Don't Marry Me!

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Don't marry me out of pity.
Don't marry me because you don't have any other option.
Don't marry me because you don't want to break my heart.

Don't marry me JUST because God said!
Marry me because you also said.

Don't marry me JUST because Parents or Pastor said.

Marry me because peace said, purpose said, attraction said, compatibility said.

Marry me because you like and love me spirit, soul and body.

Marry me because you consider me as attractive to you.

Marry me because you are sure we are compatible and we are ready to adapt to each other.

Don't marry me if you will you not submit to me.

Don't marry me if you are not ready to love me as Christ loved the church.

Don't marry me because I am from your tribe or because we have things in common.

Don't marry me because people advised and counselled you to do so.

Don't marry me if you are merely tolerating me.

Don't marry me if you are not or will not be proud of me before the world.

Don't marry me because of my present alone.

Don't marry me if you will not accept my past and present and future.

Don't marry me because of my stature, face, talents, complexion,  money, or property, because those may change.

Marry me because of my heart.

Marry me because you are aware of the responsibility of love.

Marry me because you are ready to love as Christ loved the church.

Marry me because you are ready to stick with me for better for worse.

Dear Future Partner,
Count the cost before you marry me.

Your Love.

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