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Hmmmm So I was in my room today, and the holyspirit dropped something in my heart, and that was: 'You should Always pray to be FILLED with Grace, so as to avoid playing on that FIELD of Dis-Grace' I hope that someone takes a second or two out of their BUSY schedule and just tell God to FILL them up with HIS Grace!🙏 Trust me when you're a Carrier of HIS Grace, things that people are struggling to achieve, you'll execute with Divine Ease🙌 My prayer for everyone here is that may God's Grace ALWAYS go ahead of you, may HIS mercies speak on your behalf, May HIS favour overshadow you, and may HIS Presence NEVER depart from you In Jesus Name...Amen🙏 God bless us all...Amen🤗

Hi, my name is Oyinloluwa Adeyemi-Levites. I am an advocate of "no sex before marriage ". My husband and I courted for 3 years. That was a long time to court someone you love so much that it tends to create tempting moments. We used to see about 3-4 days per week. So it was a short-distance-relationship, if any word like that exists. LOL! We started our relationship with marriage in mind, and we weren't in to test the waters or see if we'll work or not (in this day and age, there is no time for games). As born again Christians, having the same principles and convictions on sex before marriage and abstinence made setting boundaries very easy. However, you know the saying that it is easier said when you're not in the situation yet. Our friendship and love grew greatly, and so did the chemistry between us, so much so that our boundaries had to be reviewed and improved upon regularly because it seemed like the sexual charges that we both carried were explosive e...

Don't know how, but HE does it, He'll make a way, Don't know how, but He did it, He made a way, Don't know how, but I'm grateful, that He's made a way...Glory. I don't know what you are going through right now folks, but One thing I can say with utmost Confidence is that God would not take you to where His Grace cannot sustain you.  So you need to start believing that "things are not happening to you, but things are happening for you".. This is a New year, it is a New Dawn, and it's a year to trust in him, no MATTER the MATTER. And I can assure you sir/ma that even though HE was 4 days late, HE was still VERY much on time! You know last year may not have really gone the way you wanted it to, and you are so worried and bothered about what people are saying... Well sweetheart God told me to tell you that 'you shouldn't listen to what any Living soul has to say, but instead you should listen to what the Lover of your soul ...

You know there's a 'sincere' pleasure that emanates from sex, especially when the act is performed with somebody that you love, and not someone you are paid to have it with. Sex is something that not only transcends in the physical realm, but also in the spiritual realm. It is an established fact that a lot of us do have sexual urges (S.U), and they are just fine the way they are, in fact it is a sign that you are normal! I had a counselling session with a young man, and he open ed up and confided in me about his really ‘intense’ sexual urges,  which later led him into (pornography, masturbation, etc.)  in a bid to satisfy those urges, which is wrong by  the way .... And as a result of that, he th ought he was abnormal, because the whole thing i.e 'the feelings' were so intense for him. I had to assure him that the fact that he experienced all this S.U, only affirmed the fact that he was indeed normal, because this are things that God has put in us, so that at t...

Hello everyone.🙂 You know that quote below really got me thinking, because it spoke volumes to me.... You know sometimes we Christians are really guilty of this, we spend more time on our Businesses, our Families, and most especially for some, on our kids, and give the Remnant to God!!! Forgetting the fact that this same God is the one who has given us this time, this business, this family, etc. Some of us don't even have time for devotion anymore, or for some that can whisk away a few minutes, we spend stunted time in HIS presence so that when we are asked how many of us do have quiet time, we can also raise hands I read a quote, and it still touches me till tomorrow and it says 'G O D is for God and D O G is for Dog, so give the Best to God, and the Rest to the Dog! Don't you ever forget that there is NOTHING we have today that has not been given to us by God, yes I used WE, cause I'm also talking to myself here, I am not Exempted! Don't you also fo...

I've heard stuffs like, "don't check your husband's phone if you don't want to develop hypertension."  What is in that phone that you cannot check? Excuse me brother, what secret conversations are you having that your wife must not see or hear about? Who are you having secret chats with as a wife? Why are you deleting your chats, what is in the chat you are deleting? Emotional affair is every where! The moment you start having secret admiration for someone who is not your spouse, you are lusting and you need to deal with it. You can't carry fire in your bossom and not be burnt! The only solution to dealing with the affair is to block that person from your life. To keep talking to them with the false hope you will deal with the lust is to live in a fool's paradise. You will one day have sex with that person, GUARATEED! Flee youthful lust is what the Bible says, it!s not just for singles, it's for the married as well. There is one sure fire pr...

See, when a guy likes you, he likes you, if you call him 60 times per hour, your call gives him pleasure and he enjoys it. If a man doesn't like you, call him once in an hour, you are seriously disturbing him and wants you out of his way. The problem now is, most ladies are desperately running after guys who are simply not interested in them and make themselves cheaply available to him. If you want to learn how to handle a man, you learn from a man, not just a woman. That is why it is good to have opposite sex friends as singles, it will help you know how to handle your spouse in future! That question I asked guys on who they think a cheap/desperate lady is is very deliberate. Their responses are practical, though some went overboard. A wise woman will learn from those priceless information and work on her weaknesses! There is a difference between being friendly and CHASING a guy and a man knows when you are chasing him! If you treat that guy the same way you treat everyone and ...