BABY HUSBANDS

They may appear fully grown with heavy beard and moustache but are babies at heart. One area this men seriously need to grow up is their emotions.

They are perfect masters at keeping malice and taking revenge. They do not know how to lead their wives by example and are everything a woman wants to disrespect.

You don't keep malice with your wife for any reason under heaven! You are a man for God's sake. If your wife is acting childish, you should act mature and show her how to behave by your pratical, shinning, example!

A mature husband is not bitter and revengeful! He doesn't pay tit for tat. He doesn't reject the food his wife serves because he is angry.

He doesn't report his wife to his father and every single person he meets on the road! He doesn't whine and complain over trivial, insignificant things! He is in full control of his feelings and emotions.

He doesn't allow his wife's negative attitude affect him. He keeps his head above the waters. He knows when to talk and how to talk, he does not break down when the whole family depends on him for support.

A baby husband is hot tempered! He is a shouter and a screamer! Men like these are wife batterers!  He is too lazy to sharpen his relational skills and win the respect of his wife so he resorts to violence to get his message accross to his wife. This man needs to be kept in a psychiatric hospital!

Baby husbands can't pay bills without the support of their wives. Yes, your wife is there to help you and she should but to completely depend on her and become totally helpless if she doesn't contribute is to be completely useless as a man!

Baby husbands don't pray and study the word. They know all the current football match but does not know a single verse in the book of Proverbs, you are a spiritual disaster to your family!

Baby husbands have affairs. He is too lazy to work on his marriage. At any slight misunderstanding or arguement, he runs into the arms of Jezebels!

Baby husbands are sexual failures! He doesn't know how to romance his wife, too lazy to make research and read good books that will help him. He is too laid back to give his wife at least 20 minutes foreplay before intercouse and makes sex boring and scary for his wife!

Baby husbands are selfish and stingy! He wears the latest designer wears in town but doesn't mind if his wife wears rags or nothing!

Baby husbands are insecure, selfish, proud, empty-brained, useless, indolent, lazy, malicious, violent and hot tempered. Do not  make the mistake of marrying any man who shows these traits in courtship, flee with speed! If you are already married to him, pray that God will change him and do all in your power to make your marriage work. God bless you.
© Seun Oladele, May, 17, 2017.